They say we have a destiny we are fulfill from the moment we are born. They (or maybe other) say that
This has been, well let’s say, one thing sticking aggressively on my mind lately, as I am starting to think I did tricks on my destiny, and now it is all coming back to me. Am I where I should be? Am I doing what I should? Am I loving who and what I should? Is this the best path for me to grow? And is this leading me to happiness? Sure, happiness is only here and now. But when you start realizing the present is empty, that you cannot fully enjoy the present, several options might recur: 1. You are not ready to trick your destiny and drastically change it. 2. You are fooling yourself that something is changed, but it is just an illusion. 3. You don’t have the slightest idea what you really want and are unable to strongly assume who you are in your life. :)
The word SHOULD has no logical meaning according to psychology. As we all live by our perceptions and masks towards everything we meet in our way, there is nothing that we actually should do to be happy, except being our true self and LOVE. But once you start thinking this should be done and that should be done, because you think these are things that generally make people happy, slowly the sense of self fades away in a million other faces and personas in relations with the world.
Well, everybody knows, you should have a stable job and look for promotions to get a bigger salary. You should make money and you should save them. You should get married and buy a house. You should have children. You should take vacation once a year. You should do sports to be healthy. You should… or should you?
This time, it’s a commercial that inspires. Sometimes I feel that there is hope in this world with businesses gradually turning their faces to society and human values.
we can influence our destiny, we can mold it according to our principles and dreams in life, exactly as the laws of universe change the matter. But that major aspects in life will still repeat, no matter if the context is different. Like, for instance, you may change your partner, but you will still have to face a dependency issue and heal such imbalances in your inner-self. And, finally, some few people say that we can even go beyond your karma, which you can trick it, as you become increasingly conscious on the lessons you have to take in life.This has been, well let’s say, one thing sticking aggressively on my mind lately, as I am starting to think I did tricks on my destiny, and now it is all coming back to me. Am I where I should be? Am I doing what I should? Am I loving who and what I should? Is this the best path for me to grow? And is this leading me to happiness? Sure, happiness is only here and now. But when you start realizing the present is empty, that you cannot fully enjoy the present, several options might recur: 1. You are not ready to trick your destiny and drastically change it. 2. You are fooling yourself that something is changed, but it is just an illusion. 3. You don’t have the slightest idea what you really want and are unable to strongly assume who you are in your life. :)
The word SHOULD has no logical meaning according to psychology. As we all live by our perceptions and masks towards everything we meet in our way, there is nothing that we actually should do to be happy, except being our true self and LOVE. But once you start thinking this should be done and that should be done, because you think these are things that generally make people happy, slowly the sense of self fades away in a million other faces and personas in relations with the world.
Well, everybody knows, you should have a stable job and look for promotions to get a bigger salary. You should make money and you should save them. You should get married and buy a house. You should have children. You should take vacation once a year. You should do sports to be healthy. You should… or should you?
This time, it’s a commercial that inspires. Sometimes I feel that there is hope in this world with businesses gradually turning their faces to society and human values.